Sabine B., officiante de cérémonie

Intimate wedding

The bespoke elopement

An intimate ceremony with just your nearest and dearest, wherever you’d like to celebrate.

Elopement

What is an elopement?

An elopement is an intimate, symbolic wedding ceremony held with a very small group, from just the two of you up to 10 people, in a place that means something to you. Free from the constraints of a big traditional wedding, it leaves plenty of room for your emotions.

Depending on where you’d like to get married, I offer two options, always in an intimate format of up to 10 people. And because I only work with 10 to 12 couples a year, you get my full availability and attention, whichever option you choose.

An elopement with me is a symbolic ceremony. For the legal side, see our FAQ: Is an elopement abroad a legal marriage?

How it works

Your elopement, step by step

01

The meeting

A first conversation to define the place and atmosphere of your elopement.

02

The preparation

With your personal planning space.

03

The creation

Writing your ceremony.

04

The celebration

My presence on the big day, and the keepsake of your ceremony.

Two options

Choose your elopement

Couple assis pendant un élopement intime

Option 1

The local elopement

Bordeaux area (Bordeaux Métropole)

For couples marrying near Bordeaux who want a simple, efficient preparation.

  • 3 preparation meetings
  • A personal space where you can find your documents and follow the progress of your ceremony
  • Writing of your ceremony based on your story, with a guide to help you write your vows
  • My presence on the big day
  • Your ceremony script and preparation documents, delivered as a PDF after the ceremony

€1,500

Local option: travel included within the Bordeaux area (Bordeaux Métropole). Beyond that, travel costs are quoted separately.

Length agreed together, depending on the language and your wishes. A deposit confirms your booking. Payment and cancellation terms are set out in our terms and conditions.

Portrait en noir et blanc des mariés lors d'un élopement

Option 2

The destination elopement

Anywhere in France and abroad

For couples marrying far from Bordeaux, in France or abroad (Spain, Portugal, Italy or beyond), or preparing their ceremony from a distance, in several languages or from several countries.

  • 3 video preparation meetings, at your own pace, wherever you are in the world
  • Your private online portal, accessible from your computer, tablet or smartphone
  • Your ceremony written from scratch
  • Full support with your vows: a dedicated call to help you find your own words, and a proofread
  • My presence on the big day, wherever you’ve chosen to marry
  • Your ceremony script and preparation documents, delivered as a PDF after the ceremony

From

€2,000

Plus travel and accommodation. For more information on extras, see Extras and options below.

Length agreed together, depending on the language and your wishes. A deposit confirms your booking. Payment and cancellation terms are set out in our terms and conditions.

Language: French, English or bilingual, with both options. Format: an intimate ceremony of up to 10 people, in southwest France, elsewhere in France or abroad.

Book a free video call

Extras and options

Destination option: travel and accommodation costs, quoted separately

Preparation meetings beyond the 3 included

Additional ritual

A reading or speech by a loved one

Venue visit

Ceremony booklet

Upgrade from the local option to the destination option

Each extra is quoted after our first free video call.

Couples who trusted me

“We live in the north of France, far from anywhere, and yet we dreamed of marrying by the ocean in the Algarve, with only our 11 dearest people. Needless to say, we had no idea where to start. Sabine was the first person to tell us ‘it’s possible, we’ll get there together’, and she kept her word. She helped us choose every vendor on site, from the photographer to the venue, with as much care as if it were her own wedding. Our video calls quickly became a real pleasure, not just prep meetings.

On the big day in the Algarve, everything flowed incredibly smoothly. Our 11 guests experienced a ceremony that was intimate, funny and full of emotion, exactly as we had imagined it together. We cried, we laughed, and above all we felt completely ourselves in front of the people we love. Thank you, Sabine, for making an elopement 1,500 km from home so simple and so right.”

Hélène & Jérôme

Elopement, Algarve, Portugal

Emeline14 July 2024
mariages.net
5.0

Woohoo!!

Sabine! What can we say about the person who united us, whom we welcomed into our lives and with whom we shared intimate moments? We couldn’t have imagined anyone better to tell our story. She is an integral part of this beautiful adventure: attentive, patient, professional and full of good advice. Thank you! Emeline and Jp

Anne6 September 2022
mariages.net
5.0

Wonderful support

We clicked with Sabine straight away during our first conversations. We knew immediately that she was the right person to officiate at our wedding.
The ceremony was beautiful; Sabine found the right words by exploring our memories.
She captivated us with emotion and laughter.
Thank you Sabine for your support and for this ceremony that will stay in our memories forever.
A truly lovely encounter.

Reviews translated from French. Original versions on Mariages.net.

5.0/5 · 12 reviews on Mariages.net

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